Jack Ma's famous quote, 'When doing Sales, the first people who will trust you will be Strangers, Friends will be shielding against you, fair-weather friends will distance from you. Family will look down upon you.'
Sometimes, the people you expect to support you are the least people you hear from. This happens. You are not alone. Nevertheless, most use this as a reason to hold back and stay where they are. Afraid of hearing the nuance of a friend or a family, they stop moving.
To progress despite the naysaying, change your perspective and do what you have to do and work towards the person you want to be. See their words or actions as your motivator for success.
In BaZi, you can tell if a person lacks affinity in terms of family or relatives. However, your chart will not dictate the actions you make from any of your experiences.
Remember, your will to act towards these situations is what will make up your destiny.
So, if your family gives you lemon, turn it into a goddamn lemon farm!!