In BaZi, 7 killing represents challenges and problems. However, if placed at a lucky pillar this can represent power, authority, and solutions to problems.
Every time I think about my past failures, sudden loss, and mistakes I start to thank them.
I'm not saying they weren't painful but without them, I wouldn't be much better than I was then.
After many years, I have finally learned to understand that I have never lost the moment I learned from my losses, failures, or mistakes.
These past struggles were made for me so I could be better today and tomorrow.